wonders of a womans body

Wonders of a Woman’s Body

I was always fascinated by the woman’s body; its beauty and ability to create life.  I wondered how I would handle childbirth.  I knew I wanted a big family.  My mind was set on having kids early to make sure I was at my healthiest.  For reasons out of my control my plans fell through and probably for the better.  …

the strength in birth

The Strength in Birth

The pink figure flying towards us down the corridor was motioning wildly. Somewhere deep within I knew that the action must be directed towards us but she seemed, at that moment, utterly irrelevant. My husband and I were walking slowly into the hospital as I laboured.  At each contraction, now very close together, he would kneel as I paused and …

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A Sliver of Courage

I had never given too much thought to birth. Until my husband and I decided to start a family and I became pregnant. Then birth was all that I could think about. To state it lightly, I was terrified. In my own slightly perfectionist way, I worried that I wouldn’t be “good” at birth. The imagined worst case scenario would …

Cedars Incredible Birth

Cedar’s Incredible Birth

This birth story starts before we even knew we were pregnant. In July 2009, Dalen and I decided that we would start trying for another little one. We knew, based on our history, it hardly meant that we would see a positive pregnancy quickly. At the end of August medical tests confirmed I was pregnant. The numbers weren’t rising as …

A Winter Birth

A Winter Birth

My fourth little one was born at home. She was my first home-birthed baby. My first was a c-section due to breech, my second and third (twins) were a breech hospital vbac. With baby four, we decided to go with midwives for the personal relationship and their acceptance of our desire for a natural birth. When the time came, our …

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A Curve Ball

After I married my husband, I often imagined what our future would be like together. I pictured what our home life would be like. A steady stream of chaos with kids going to and fro, countless activities, gadgets littered about the yard, leaving no question to onlookers that kids were being raised there. I thought of what my husband would …

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Surprise Breach

Maybe it was serendipitous, maybe it was Murphy’s Law. Either way, my husband Dan and I were both shocked when my water broke at 4:00 a.m. on Christmas morning. This baby, our second child, was not due until January 4, but here I was on Christmas morning sitting in a puddle of amniotic fluid. When I woke Dan up, he …

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Natural B Finally

[Note to Reader: Please be aware that this story deals with infant loss.] Finally, after losing our first pregnancy we were pregnant again. The weeks went by, tense and scary but we had made it past the risk of miscarriage. We were well into the safety zone and so excited. Our first daughter! My husband had two sons prior to …

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How To Have A Natural Birth In Hospital

As a childbirth educator in Calgary, I’ve shared many conversations with expectant mothers who wanted a midwife but didn’t make it further than the waiting list.   I listen to them express their feelings and often shed tears in disappointment. Women say things like, “All my family has given birth with midwives and I have been so inspired listening to their …

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Labour-Aid

Make your own drink to help you stay hydrated and maintain your electrolyte balance during labour!   Labour-Aid 1/3 cup fresh lemon juice 1/3 cup honey (or to taste) 1/4 tsp sea salt 2 calcium/magnesium tablets, crushed Water to make 4 cups     7 VBAC Truths Krista Cornish Scott Let’s be real; there can be a lot of myths, …